Am I asking too much?

For days I feel intensly sleep deprived. Child keeps waking for breastfeeding and I sleep for 3 to 4 hours a day. Sometimes I have a nap but I can not fall a sleep during the day. Husband works 6 to 8 hours, on some days longer. He never wakes up for baby because I know that he needs to be concentrated at work. BUT I keep telling him to take the burden of my chest when It comes to my daughters life. Since she came I was the only one responsible for her wellbeing. Yes, sometimes he does help.and he is caring father but he just can not recognise danger around her. So, I was very tired and I breastfed my baby and fell asleep next to her. Before I went to bed I told him to check on us (check the heating). After 4 hours I find my baby overheated and covered with my DUVET (not the face but still dangerous). It never happened before because I dont even use duvet for safety reasons. I guess I was that tired and I could have kill my child. Later she woke up and didnt want to sleep so I woke my husband up and told him that he needs to help me and he started yelling that he needs sleep. I just can not explain to him that he needs to recognize when I make mistakes. He has seen us in bed and didnt do anything. To him It was OK instead he could have move her to crib. I constantly feel so guilty and he never feels that way. via /r/Parenting https://ift.tt/2E5P1iD