Our youngest daughter is acting out because of her brother's suicide. It's bad.

Our only son out of 5 children passed recently. I'd rather not get into the details of that as its still a very fresh, very deep wound.I often like to read things on reddit but have nevee been so tempted to make an account to actively participate. But now I need help with making sense of this.What I'm here to seek help on is my daughter.She's 19. Since she learned of her brother's passing and the reason why, she's been overflowing with intense anger, bordering on hatred for him. I've lost all control of her. She's screamed at us, broken things, spoken very, very poorly of him. It's all just getting to be too much.My husband is so devestate he hasn't left our room in days and he's barely eaten.My other daughters live on their own now so they haven't had to witness what's happening.My daughter has never been this angry or hateful before. I'm wondering is this is just how she's grieving his lost as they were extremely close since she was born. They did everything together. They were so close people would think she was his daughter when they were out together. I understand that she's hurting a lot and she's never had to deal with loss like this but her behavior is unacceptable. via /r/Parenting http://ift.tt/2eoLGyi