Sunday, 23 October 2016

I am only 21, but I have some ideas around parenting. What do you think? I really want to be the best father I can be for my future kid(s).


Hi!This post could easily be several pages long, but I am going to try to keep it short. It's my first time on this subreddit, but I hope you'll humor me for a little while. But the most important thing for me, is that you tell me exactly what you feel about my thoughts, because people think differently, and you can do things in life in several different ways, and they might all be correct, but it's also important to make up your own mind after looking at different angles and opinions, and not rush how you choose to behave in life.Anyway, let's get right into it:I am currently 21 years old, and I have an amazing girlfriend whom I have been together with for almost one and a half years, and even though it's naive to think that she is the one, I am still going to do everything I can to make sure that I treat this relationship as if I know that's true. We ended up getting together after one tinder date, and spending the next day together. I work as a chef, and I am very used to hectic, stressful and fast-paced situations where you have to perform your very best, and work together in perfect synchrony in a team if you want your day at work to go smoothly, and everyone knows that if anyone fails to deliver, everybody will suffer. My girlfriend has not gone through that kind of life, and even though she felt like I was a lot more rushed and pushing than she was used to, she felt that it was still right, and decided to try a relationship together. We have never had an argument, and think very similarily, and our relationship feels very right.I have gone through some difficult times in life, and have learned important things about life. A few things I have learned ( Just to not make this post too long )If you want to succeed in life, and have the life you think is best for yourself, you have to realize that everything you think you know about life is completely based in lies designed to keep the money and power in the hands of a few that, through complex systems, decide the direction of the world. Money is, by design, meant to funnel to the rich, and act as a faccade for everyone else. A false sense of hope. Money is important, and making money is hard, these two combinations will make sure that money is an important part of your life, taking up a lot of your thoughts and time, thus distracting you from the truth. Every system is designed to be hard, to distract you from the bullshit of life.If you want to make good decisions in life, you need to actively seek out information for yourself, and look at different opinions and viewpoints, to be curious, skeptical, open-minded, humble and to reflect, and think about all the information you recieve, and to not be naive and lazy, by trusting that the authorities, your teacher, your friends, and any other person in life is telling the truth. People make mistakes all the time, and to think that, just because of a persons status in society, their background, their education, or anything else, is an indication that they can't possibly be wrong.-- Note: I don't want to think that I am making this post as a subtle attack against authorities, and that I am just another nutbag that believes any conspiracy, but think about it like this: Humans have a built in instinct that is very important for our species: A very strong will to survive at any cost, and our primary job as a species is to make sure that our genes are going to continue on, so that we don't end up in a situation where all this work, all this hardship that humans have endured, won't end up in vain, and our entire life-work is lost, and forgotten in time.That instinct is the foundation, and it's at the very core of every one of us. If a person ends up in a traumatic situation in their life, where they are met with a life or death situation, everything we know and believe does no matter any more, our instinct to fight to the very last drop of blood will take over us, fill us with power, and we are left in a state of limbo where we are experiencing an out of body experience, where we are no longer connected to our body, because our body is acting on instinct, and our thoughts are pushed to the side, and we are left to view ourself either live through to live another day, or not make it. ( I am not saying this is 100% accurate, but for many people, instinct will completely controll a person in a situation like this, because our mind is not quick enough, and won't be able to make correct decisions more often than our instinct will. )To get to my point: There are three kinds of people in life.Self servicing people: A large majority of our population, and currently the part of our society that is idolized in media, and glorified, and looked up to as a prime of example of what a succesful human being is like, are people that have chosen the path of self service, to make sure that they will do whatever it takes to make sure that they get everything they need to protect their own interest, and that of their family, and every important person in their life. Examples of people, or organizations of these are ranging from the worst; Illuminati, the bilderberg group, satanism ( primarily LaVeyan Satanism, Link ) Scientology, to less volatile versions of this path, where individuals act selfish and recklessly in order to protect themselves and their own. This ranges from everything to ruthless business CEO's, to different types of religious instituations that seek to preach what they think is a right way to live.These groups are wildly missunderstood by our society, one reason for that is our lazyness to seek out information, and to be critical to information. Another is that there are many distractions in our life that are meant to keep us busy, to dumb us down from the truth. Hitler is one of the most important and genious individuals to have walked this planet, and although I do not condone his actions in any way, I have to accept the fact that he was incredibly smart, and knew exactly what path he was one: The path of self service. The difference between a CEO of a business, and Hitler, was that hitler wanted to change the world to make sure that every individual in the world worked towards what he meant was important for his interests. He wanted to make sure that his family and interests were fulfilled as long as possible, by changing how every human on earth acted, to his interests, rather than what a systematicly built group of individuals seek: To create a large family, that seeks to help each other, to share tips, to share knowledge, power and wealth, and to help each other no matter what, and to be neutral to anyone else outside of that family, as long as they are not harming their interests. Prime examples of this is Satanism, Scientology, Bilderberg and Illuminati and the Vatican state, although in varying degrees of hunger for power, are only making sure to keep their family safe, by expanding their family to a large network, because a large community is much better at making sure their interests are met, than just one single family.The United States of America is the most powerful nation in the world today, because they understand all of this. They understand that in order to make sure that the interest of their country, and thusly the safety of their people are kept for as many generations as possible, you have to get as many people on your side as possible. And how do you do this? Well, let's just look at some of the things that The United States have done so far behind the protection of deliberate distractions of media:They are constantly seeking out ways to aquire more wealth and influence. A few examples are their numerous military installations they have built in the countries of their allies, to allow them to stretch out further, to be right there in the action so that they can act much more swiftly to changes that might harm their country. They are creating massive distractions and events to active otherwise politicly un-interested, simple minded people to back their causes, by creating excuses for war. War is the biggest money maker in the world: First you make an excuse to start a war against an enemy ( And it has been said that in order for a society to work, you have to have a common enemy, a ying and yang ) in order to destroy that country so you can build it up later, thus making money with infrastructure. And to give out a ''helping hand'' to that country after you ''saved them'' from the evil that hurt their country, by giving out huge loans with interest, and because they have to accept that loan, because they don't have a choice, you are then able to make deals with them by removing some of that debt, by for example buying their electricity companies, to take over their opium farms, to buy their oil at low prices, and any other action that they have to agree to if they want to be survive as a country. It's also very important to note that you can also sell weapons to both sides of a war because they need it to win, and to let two countries break each other down, and then swoop in when they are at their weakest, with the support of their people, and win the war while minimizing the damage to themselves.I know this is getting out of hand, and if you down-vote me to oblivion for these opinions, then that's fine. I also want you to know that I am constantly open to finding out that I am completely wrong in everything I believe in, an example of that is that I recently switched from being a firm believer of science, and a hard atheist, to a fully spiritual human being. I have changed how I view life completely around, and if that is not a prime example of open-mindedness, then I don't know what is.My point is this: I want to teach my children the value of being critical, to not conform to a truth without reflecting on what is right or wrong, and to stand your ground in what you believe in, to never let anyone else change how you think, but still be open to new ideas, and to be ready, to at any point change every aspect of your life, in order to be the very best, and true version of yourself.The second path is the most common: The sleepwalkers. Humans that live their whole life within the system, without any particularily reflective thoughts, that live happily, and die happily. Nothing wrong with that.The third path is the one I am following: Service to others. To always seek out, with all the actions and decisions in your life, to try your hardest to improve the lives of everyone around you as best as you can. Sometimes this means to be selfish, so that you can gather information and strength to become better at helping others, to seek out information on how to improve your relationships, how to help others in more ways. To have one agenda: To make sure that the lives of those around you is better because you are in their life. This path is not going to make you rich, it's not going to make you famous, it's not going to give you power, it's not going to raise your rank in society, because that's not what the majority of humans are fed every day as the perfect human being. We all know this is a good thing to strive towards, but how many have reflected on how their own life, and their own decisions are like, compared to what this path is? It is a completely different thing to do something, than think something.I am already embarrased by the length of this post, and instead of trekking on, I just want to hear what you think about these thoughts, and is it a good idea to teach these things to a child when they are mature enough to understand the true meaning behind this, or is it better to let them live in the bubble of life, designed to keep them happy and ill-informed, thus allowing the cycle of life to continue undisturbed?Final note: It was not my intention of bringing politics in this, but the reason I brought it up is that I think of these things as real situations in our life, and if you think of it as philosophical questions to a complex issue rather than politics, it's easier to keep an open mind to my thoughts, than let yourself be distracted with what you think politics represents, and thusly, stigmatise and propagate your opinions before you start reading, because that's how you are taught to think by society. I really hope that if this post is not tolerated here, that you can excuse my ignorance.I just want my children to make smart decisions by being able to look through the bullshit, to seek information on their own, to listen to every side of things, to never let their ego decide what you think or do, to never let anyone controll your actions, to not be lazy in life, to never ever stop trying to improve one-self, so that you can change the lives of everyone around you, so that maybe, just maybe, instead of idolizing self-service, we can start understanding that money is the prime reason for all evil in the world, designed, in every way possible, to controll your actions and thoughts in life to an agenda where power is in the hands of a few, to understand that making sure that every human being can live a life of decency, a life where their opinions are heard, where the right to be a human being with feelings and goals is more important than material things, power or wealth.I want my children to do whatever they can to make sure that the world their children, or childrens children grows up in, is a world where happiness, security, free health-care, unlimited access to information, schools designed to breed critical thinking, and everything else that WE KNOW are good things, is a basic human right, and not something only a few of us, only because of the country we have grown up in, allows us to have those freedoms.We have enough money, water, food, land and will-power to give every human on earth a decent life. To think the authorities of our world are actively doing everything they can to make sure that happens, to bring poor people up to your standards, is a naive and false idea. If that was the goal, this thread would not be on reddit, but a scary story we would read from a book to our children before they go to bed, to warn them about the true evil of money, and how it is more harmful than we can accept. via /r/Parenting http://ift.tt/2eGKVz1

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