A victim of an alcoholic with adhd

I am a mother, a women, a daughter and I am a victim.Living with an alcoholic that has adhd is one thing but what you do not see or hear about is the verbal and mental abuse. The rage and violence that comes with it. The mess I have to clean up. Wetting the bed or the couch. Slamming and smashing doors and other items in the home. All in front of a 5 year old and new born baby.WE DO NOT DESERVE THIS.But no matter what, it is never his fault. It is always mine. I am the reason he is like this.I cook, clean, take care of the kids and so much more with no thank you, But he needs to be praised for the minutes he spends doing any of these things and if he isn’t, I am ungrateful.I’m stuck. via /r/Parenting https://ift.tt/2wXBsSJ