Hey,I don't know if this is normal or not. I'm 30 years old guy. My wife and I had our first born about 5 months ago. Everything is going great, we're both trying our best. We read a lot and asked a lot of our friends for tips and we continue on learning new stuff along the way.But ever since he's born, and specially now that he is starting to slowly interact with us, I have been getting some kind of anxiety thinking about the future. Will I be a good father? Can I raise him in a good way? Will I know if a bad person is hurting him? Can I protect him from the evil of the world? Will I be able to afford the things he needs? Will I be able to send him to a good school? Can I get him the necessities he needs, and can I get him the luxuries he wants?When I look at him, and he smiles at me, I just die inside, I want to give him everything I can. And just the thought of something bad happening to him makes me cry (alone, usually as I try to sleep at night).Am I normal? How can I control my emotions and make them sensible? What did other parents do when they faced such emotions?Thanks via /r/Parenting https://ift.tt/2NvjL2L
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