Wednesday, 22 May 2019

My wife wants a second child, I’ve hated our relationship since the first


I’m a sahf, I provide half our income at night while they sleep. I do most of the work, and sleep the least. My wife is younger than me and hasn’t adjusted to parenthood as well as me. She needs time see friends and get drinks, I don’t get those things. She’s not a bad mom, but she treats both of us with less patience than I’d like.The real problem is that communication is broken. I can’t find a way to tell her that I don’t like how she treats me sometimes, without it turning into a screaming match that I don’t have the energy to engage with. So I don’t say anything, I have a house to clean and a toddler to feed. And I just feel fucking trapped, I love my son more than anything and will do literally anything for him.She wants a second baby soon, but I just feel like we’re not going to make it, and it’s wrong to bring another child into a doomed relationship, but if I accept that, why should we even be together now? via /r/Parenting http://bit.ly/2YKqN62

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