Well, at least he's not afraid to be honest with me.

Last night at around 9 PM I ran up stairs yelling "NIGHT SWIM!" Two of my four sons were super pumped. We got changed into our swimsuits, I had decided to try out my new bikini (it covers a lot).I saw my 8 year old first in the hallway and I asked him what he thought. (This I came to regret)With no hesitation he says: "No offense, and I dont mean to be mean, but a lot of men would find you attractive if you lost weight. I'm just saying."(Yes, this is how he speaks at times. He's the youngest of four sons.)I wasn't upset with him. It was a true statement. But JFC kid, like I really didn't need that much honesty at that moment.Still plan on wearing it on vacation. Fuck it. I like it, and stretch marks look better when tan. via /r/Parenting http://bit.ly/2HHfKVU