My husband has a daughter (6) from a previous relationship, I’ve always had a good relationship with her and have tried to raise her like she’s my own daughter. She’s a beautiful, smart little girl, and she’s been an only child up until a year ago. I will also note that she’s a very emotional girl - every time we pick her up she cries because she’ll miss her mom - every time we drop her off she cries because she’ll miss us (and our dog,of course). Her immediate response to anything negative or that she’s perceived as negative ends in tears.HoweverSomething that I’ve noticed lately is how much she depends on my husband or I for instruction. On the weekends if we’re having a nap, she’ll sit on the couch doing absolutely nothing and will wait for us to wake up. She constantly depends on validation and attention, and only like doing things that give her positive validation - and not for her own enjoyment.I guess I’m just looking for advice on how to make this little girl more confident and independent. I’ve tried talking to her about making her own happiness and doing things that make her feel good .. has anyone else experiences this and been able to make a positive impact? via /r/Parenting http://bit.ly/2D3YHd3
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