Living with single mom help.

Hey all,I’m dating a single mother (same house same bed) and we don’t want to confuse the kid with titles.Now to give some backstory she has full custody and I had agreed to come and help with rent.She gets no help outside of me helping with rent and was just laid off.I understand some people’s view about moving in early, trust me I felt it. It all just kinda happened, and we became a bit involved with each other.The child (4yo) has his own bed in this 2bdrm 2 bath condo. I’m specifically worried about wether we can try to have a relationship or must be very distant in the child’s eyes. For instance, I will take the couch to sleep on some nights so she can have the bed alone. The kid can sometimes get up in the middle of he night to sneak in and sleep with mom. She will sometimes sleep in his bed with him so I can reset with a good night in her actual bed.I really want to hear from others who have been in the same boat. Is the child ever ok with mom sleeping in the same bed as a boyfriend? Is this a phase? What can I do to make this easier on them both.TLDR; I’m here for financial support and the mom and I are starting to get involved. I’ve never had kids, don’t know whats best. via /r/Parenting https://ift.tt/2uSS4JO