So this is my first post ever on reddit, because there's so much going on right I need some kind of external advice/input. My gf (30) and me (25) have been together for a year and half now, and we have a 1 month old boy. There is no problem between us, except this baby. We had some major doubts about ourselves becoming parents when she got pregnant but listened to everyone saying how it was going to change when we'd see the baby, how we would instantly love him and willing to dedicate our lives for him. Except none of that happened, we're half decent person tho so we do everything that's right for him, but without any kind of love. And I guess he senses it because he seems so much happier when he's not with us but at his grandparent's. So now we're both going through depression and on several occasions had this thought of just leaving our son behind. And we find ourselves talking about it more and more often. It definitely sounds like we're both horrible persons (we kind of are, hence our doubts at the beginning) , but we were not, are not now, and I don't think we will ever be, the kind of persons who can be loving parents and we think it would be better for the child this way, so he can be with people who love him.Please help/advice, I am lost and so is she, did anyone felt this way when first becoming parents? Did you deal with it and take care of the child anyways or did you fuck off, either alone or as a couple ? via /r/Parenting https://ift.tt/2Hlq9HZ
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