UPDATE: FINAL PART of the Panty Saga.

Ok things just came to a blow.My husband's been home for a while now and he approached me saying that the vibe is bad and he knows something is going on.I said nothing and he returns 15 minutes."Why don't you just tell me," he sighs. "You know secrets make me fucking mad,"I tell him that's exactly why, I don't like saying anything. Right now I don't really care if my husband if my husband gets mad.He could combust before me and I won't bat an eye. I mean my son masturbated with my, his mother, underwear. My husband yelling can't be any worse.I tell him if he gets angry at what I'm about to say, I'm going to leave.I haven't even told him the reason why I'm currently upset and he's already getting heated. He says if I weren't so secretive he wouldn't have to be mad.The reason I'm secretive is because you're temper is short....I tell him that I found my soiled underwear in our sons hamper and he masturbated to it.Husband looks me dead in my eyes and starts laughing.He states that what I get for being too liberal and buddy buddy with our kids. He said that's what happens when you talk about sex too much with your kids.He asked me how I responded. I told him and he broke into a peal of laughs. He says I should have kicked him in the privates.He said if he wasn't present in the household, our son would've raped or molested me by now.Husband finally stops laughing and went into the hallway. He called our son out of his room. He nails him right in the groin and tells him if he does that again, he will beat the incest out of him until he coughs up his organs.Hubby tells me I need to have a therapy course on how not to be a doormat.Tomorrow,I'm going to go to my physcian and get a referral to a therapist because right now I could jump of of Mount Everest.And when I get out of this current funk, I'll be looking for a lawyer next.I can't take this anymore. If my daughter was, say 14 I would stick it out for the next four years.But she's ten, I can't go another 8+ years.I figured once the kids moved out,my husband would be the wonderful man he was. He was perfect before we had kids.Thank you for all of your advice. via /r/Parenting http://ift.tt/2o3UXCo