How to raise kids to be confident, when you are not?

This is very simple. I really don't have a backbone. In a fight, I am not brave. I try to be in every situation, but sometimes, I just let people either say horrible things, or I succumb their horrible thoughts.This is probably my worst attribute I'm throwing out here, so be kind.​Anyway, I want to help my children (especially my girls, because girls deal with a lot of mind manipulation), to be stronger than me. How can I do this? I try to do the right thing in front of them, but sometimes, when I know something is the right thing to say, I just don't say it. via /r/Parenting https://ift.tt/2Q1B5xk