Father in law touching the girls

I was on here a few months ago about how my father in law is kissing my daughter and nieces on the lips. Not just when they first walk in the door but all through our visit. He will kiss them 3 or 4 times one after the other while asking them if they love him and telling them that he loves them. He rubs there legs while talking to them and smacks them on there bums all the time. But anyway, I took people's advice and organised couples counseling for me and the wife. After a couple of months of counseling my wife spoke to her parents and said to them that we would like them to not kiss our kids on the lips as they are getting older and we want to teach them about body anonomy . So I thought everything would be ok. My father in law visited us yesterday and as my daughter who's going to be 8 years old in 2 weeks was showing him something he started rubbing the back of her legs while she was talking. I was fucking fuming. After he left I lost my shit. I didn't say anything because the councilor advised me not too as this would end up in divorce with my wife. I then had to go to a Christmas party later that night. My wife told me to stay home because my father in law was going to be there and I said no way. If he's there then I'm there. She said she will take the kids and go without me and I told her that if she did then she can stay there and never return home. After some yelling and screaming we headed to the party. Thank God they didn't kiss my kids on the lips because I would of exploded but instead my father in law sat there kissing my wife's sisters kids on the lips flat out in front of me making me sick. He had he's hands on there legs and arses. I got up and went in the garage in rage telling my wife that he makes me sick and I can't believe that I have to continually keep my mouth shut when all I want to do is go over there and slap him in the face like the bitch that he is. And now today my wife still refuses to talk to him about his touching, says that he's doing nothing wrong and that I have anger issues. So today I want to divorce my wife because I feel I can't win. It seems that I either let it go and put up with it or I say something which will end up with divorce and my kids moving in with this asshole. via /r/Parenting https://ift.tt/2Muqg4A