Ever since I had my baby I’ve grown to dislike my family... is it me or them!?

I’ve got a 5 month old little bundle of joy 😍. But ever since I had her my family have been making me crazy, they seem to feel in competition with my partners family. I don’t have parents of my own, it’s my partners mums first grandchild so she was super excited about this and has been heavily involved, being the only grandparent, and the fact we do get on. But ever since I gave birth and came home all I’ve had off my Granny and Auntie’s when I have seen them is asking if I’ve been with his family, making comments about how his family see more of my child than they do. Honestly there making it so unpleasant I want to see them less. Am I missing something? Why do they seem to be competing with his family, honestly if we’re together and the baby is a bit upset 😢 they will say ‘oh go to your granny(his mum) you know her better’. I’m so drawn with all the digs/comments all the time. Please help I fear I will just end up not seeing them if they can’t get along! via /r/Parenting https://ift.tt/352nSZt