Yesterday, a daycare mom texted me that her daughter had a facial injury and she hadn't been given an accident report. I was horrified but thought nothing more of it until picking up my two year old son.When I got there, an afternoon teacher said (son) had a bad day, he hurt a friend. I panicked and said, "Oh my gosh, he hurt (friend's name)?" She said he's yes, and said this:(Friend) was lying on the floor. (Son) walked up, grabbed the back of her head and slammed her face into the floor.Naturally, I'm almost in hysterics because I think my kid is a psycho capable of hurting his friend, and I'm thinking we're going to need immediate therapy, etc.A lead teacher walks by and sees what is happening, and she stops the conversation immediately. She says she will call me later.She calls in an hour, and tells me what the afternoon teacher's story was completely false, and this teacher wasn't even there for the incident. The kids were actually dancing together and fell on each other, according to the teacher who was actually there. There was no malicious intent, and there was an accident report but (friend's) mom didn't receive it.Now I understand why they don't tell us who our kid hurts if they do something - this was highly damaging. Thank goodness the mom and I are friends and are confirming we are getting the same story, and this morning our kids played together happily, but the afternoon teacher should really be more careful because her words could have been highly damaging to my child and the relationship between me and (friend's) parents. via /r/Parenting http://bit.ly/2VKg9KM
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