My husband doesn't want to have sex with me after the baby

Hi /r/parenting - /r/relationships thought this was too specific and suggested I post here.Tl;Dr no more sex life after baby, not sure why and what to do.Open to any and all comments...9 months ago we had a baby--she was planned and we couldn't be happier. However, since then, my husband and I have had sex exactly twice, both times he was drunk.I've tried talking about it, and he always blames either stress, being tired, or both. Before the baby, our sex life was about every other day, and it worked great for both of us.I assume it's one of the following four reasons:he's no longer sexually attracted to me. This one is plausible, but I weighed the same on my discharge from the hospital as I did before I got pregnant, so I don't look particularly differently.he is genuinely stressed out and it's not an excuse. He started his own business towards the end of the pregnancy and it's definitely adding a lot new stress, on top of the baby. In this case, what can I do to help?he is cheating. Highly doubtful, since we spend an obscene amount of time together as we both work at home.other psychological or medical reasons. He insists he feels fine, but he's not one to overshare.Please help - I'm getting sad and desperate. Our family life otherwise is fantastic, but we're both beginning to feel like best friend roommates with a baby. via /r/Parenting https://ift.tt/2Hbb0s7