My SO has signed off legal custody of both our 1 year old son and 35 week daughter. I work a 6-6 job 30 minutes from home, have military obligations once a month spanning between a weekend to 2 weeks. My daughter was born 2 months early and is in the NICU so I drive to see her after work every day. With the mother leaving I can have my mother watch my son but with my daughter being in the NICU I don't know what to do and feel as though adoption is the only route I know she can be properly cared for and not be neglected because I work such long hours and her mother has left the picture. My son stays with my mom for the time being and i normally come home after he's asleep (except for those lovely days he stays up to see me) and only interact with him in the middle of the night for changing or in the morning when he wakes up. I don't know what to do and just need to vent and ask advice. Is it possible to raise both my children and give them both the attention and love they deserve if I'm working long hours and too many days? via /r/Parenting http://ift.tt/2F94ei9
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