Obsessed Aunty

I’m so annoyed with my sister. She made a calendar of my kids without my permission using photos off my private Facebook album. Now I know she makes personal calendars for herself every year, but I think it’s a little disrespectful not telling me first that she was going to make an ENTIRE year long calendar. This one is her work one, she also made another one of her and her husband for home. So everyone at her work can now see photos of my kids, which I purposely keep private. I don’t publicly share any photos of my kids, I only have this one private album that a few family members can see,Now I could forgive all this if it wasn’t for this one thing. This really hurts me, there is this nice photo of me holding my baby and I am cropped out of it. But there is multiple photos of her holding my child. Nobody else is in the photos except my kids or her. She said she is “obsessed” with them. Keep in mind she is childless herself so this is the closest she will ever come to having kids. But I still feel really upset about being cropped out of my kids life. I only freakin’ birthed them and do all the hard work with them. She has no idea how I feel about all this. I don’t know if I should start a fight with her or let it slide because I want her to be happy. I know she didn’t mean any harm from it but I can’t help but be pissed off and cry about it though. via /r/Parenting https://ift.tt/2FPyt2E