Lovong with family and part time with 2 year old, Help!

Hey guys, bit of a small one here but its bugging me. I currently live with my parents and have my son(LO) 2-3 nights a week. He's a great kid with 3x the energy of any kid i've ever met! Which means 90% of the time he does the right thing, 10% not so much, and with all his energy he manages to fit a lot of 10% into his day.While i can handle that pretty well my parents (from here on we'll call them grandparents, as they are from LO perspective) and sisters (Aunties) Are firmly of the opinion that their only job is to spoil LO rotten as they're family and not LO's parents.For me this means LO has four adults in the house spoiling him and letting him get away with stuff while I'm constantly tasked with telling him off for things like playing with the hose or escaping the yard. I think LO is starting to take advantage of this by asking the others if he can have a lolly or doing bad things when they're watching him for me (a mans gotta pee right)I feel like LO is holding a grudge seeing me as big bad dad and associating me with punishment and not the actions he's taking. via /r/Parenting http://ift.tt/2Cp08RI