Me(29M) and my wife (34M) live in Germany. I am American and shes German.We recently just had our first son born in March. Ive become in the last year very homesick, although I visit twice a year I long to move back.I am from the Bay area and my father runs a family bar in Los Gatos, a small upscale town.I am becoming depressed as I dont wanna live here anymore. We live near Stuttgart. It makes it hard to parent because I am so depressed.My wife loves California but is scared to move and feels she might end up in the same spot. I am not sure what to do. I dont want to abandon my baby but im sad and upset alot because i miss my home in America. We have said we will move at some point we agreed upon but it needs to happen sooner than she wants.Maybe I am stupid to return as the bay is expensive and the elections aint looking good...The main reason to move back is to help my dad carry on our business we have had since 1959.How should i deal with this? How can i be a parent when I myself am unhappy that it affects how i am? Thanks for listening. via /r/Parenting http://ift.tt/295BUhz
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