My daughter and her best friend have recently moved up from the 2 year old class to preschool level at their daycare. They’ve decided to split them up, I was originally told this was because when two move up together they always split them between the two classes, however the director let it slide to my mother when she was picking my daughter up that they split them up because they were too close. Her friend’s mother and I both want them in the same class, because now they only get an hour of time together first thing in the morning. Is there a good reason to split up friends that have too close of a bond? They became fast friends and immediately connected when her friend started school last July and I’ve never seen two year olds who were friends like that. And my daughter does get along with the other kids at school and plays with them too but she just absolutely loves her best friend. I am meeting up with her friend’s mother next week since we’re about to go on vacation. And then possibly set up a conference with the director and maybe owner if I need to. The director did make it seem like my daughter would be the on that had to move, which is a tough decision for me because she loves her teacher and her teacher loves her and has wanted my daughter in her class since she was a baby, and she has another good friend in new class but just not on the level as her BFF. I was just wondering if anyone has been in a similar situation and what did you do? If you child was split up from a best friend as a toddler/preschooler, did they still remain best friends? Did you put in extra work to make sure the bond was strong, like more play dates?TIAEdit:changed an autocorrect mistake via /r/Parenting http://bit.ly/2JXRaT2
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