
My wife and I have a 1 year old son right now named Josh. He is amazing, and adorable, and neat, and I love him more than I imagined I could love another human being. I always lay him down after saying a line from a song I once heard, "there are fancy cars and diamond rings, but you know that they don't mean a thing. They all add up to nothing compared to you."Last month we found out that my wife is expecting again, we are going to have another baby! During my wife's pregnancy with Josh, I constantly thought about what kind of person he would be, whether he was going to suck, going to be an easy baby, I just thought about him all the time. Now that I have him and I am teaching him and instructing him and disciplining him, I find myself never thinking about my baby on the way. I almost never think about baby #2.I am already worried about not loving this baby as much as Josh, and the fact that I almost never think about baby #2 makes me worried that my fear will come true. That I will be so busy and focused on Josh that I won't properly love and parent #2.Has anybody been in this situation before and have any words of wisdom for me? via /r/Parenting https://ift.tt/2n3F4u4
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