Happy with one kid, but unexpectedly pregnant.

Hey everyone! We have a little girl and we are very happy with having one kid. A happily one and done family. I was supposed to have Mirena inserted tomorrow, but realized I was late and took a test. I am pregnant.I really don’t want to be! We had one slip up where we didn’t use a condom, pulled out instead and I’m pregnant! It took 6 months to get pregnant with our first, including charting, and peeing on ovulation sticks! I’m in shock that i have an accidental pregnancy at 30 years old. 🙈I don’t know what to do. I’m not even sure if this is the right subreddit.Honestly though, I hated being pregnant, child birth was awful. I don’t want to do the baby stage again! My kid is only 10 months and it’s already getting better, which i know the first 10 months would go quickly with the second one too.I calculated my due date if I were to keep it and they would be 18 months apart.I am considering an abortion, but am afraid I would regret it. But I’m also afraid I would regret keeping it. The second would be much worse, if I regret having an abortion that only affects me, if I regret having it that can affect the kid as well.Anyone else get a surprise and keep it? How did it turn out? What was the age gap between them? via /r/Parenting http://ift.tt/2ChtYr7