Partner and I close to separating after having our baby.

Since having our baby 9 months ago, my partner and I fight all the time and are at the point where we are close to separating. Neither of us wants this but both agree that we can't keep living this way.He wants more freedom to go out and see his friends occasionally (2-3 times a week) where he has a few drinks and usually 'loses track of time' and doesn't end up coming home when he says he will be. I respond to this by telling him I don't want him to go out because of that and cause I'm sick of being left home with our baby, so I generally tell him I don't want him to go when he says he's going out. He feels constricted and I feel neglected.I want a break but I have no car and he's sick of me asking him to take me places. Getting a car is something I'm working on but it is going to take time because we can't afford one and I still have lots of hours I need logged before I can go for my full license.Ever since we had a baby I feel like we're so distant from one another, we don't give each other affection or make love, we don't spend proper time together because we're so busy with our child and there's no one who can look after him for a few hours. We live 4 hours away from family for my partners job.I know no one can give me a magic answer here, but has anyone been in this situation and made it work? I love him with all my heart but I just don't know how to fix this. via /r/Parenting http://ift.tt/2a0fsHn