Anyone else really struggle with OH's family being sround your baby?

I don't know if this is some kind of primordial thing but I can't stand any of them near him. I dont mind my oh's dad or brother but I have issues with everyone else.I can't stand mil even touching my baby. Like watching her with him makes me feel rage. What is that about?She's said things in the past which have pissed me off. On his first day out of the hospital I went to pick him up when he cried and she was telling me I should leave him to cry or he will get used to it. The poor guy had just been ripped from the womb FFS. On many occasions she has told me I should stop touching him so much, when he was a month old she would go on at me how I should give him baby rice and rusks. She tells me I should give him a bottle with a spoon full of sugar in when he doesn't poo. She asked if I was breastfeeding still last week, I said yes and she looked at me like shit. He's seven months old. Shes puts her fingers in his mouth which is fucking gross, so does her mum too. Even though OH has told them not to.Other things about her annoy me more than they used to too. She hasnt met my family and has no interest in doing so. My mum is always saying she wants to meet her. I introduced her to one of my sisters and she looked at her like she was a peice of shit. My other sister is a lesbian and she said lesbians are weird and kids shoud be raised around normal people. I know all this isn't related to her with my son but i find myself obsessing about them whenever I see her.OH's grandma has tried call today and I've just ignored it because I don't want them at my house or taking my baby out.I just want him to be all mine and my partner's. I don't trust anyone with him but us and my sister's. That's it!I knowy feelings are unreasonable. I always pretend everything is hunky dory when I'm around them but inside I'm screaming and just can't wait to leave. via /r/Parenting https://ift.tt/2M6HUZJ