My husband has been showing signs of depression since our second child was born.

Yesterday my partner told me that they didn't like their life. That they loved their kids, but every day was a grind and they weren't happy.Our second child was born six months ago and every day since, with a few exceptions, they have been frustrated, sad, and shown signs of depression. For the first two months they would hit walls and throw things when he cried - and even now I can see how his cries cause a deep anger.He's our SAHP, mostly. Our kids are both in daycare, but I work out of the house so he does drop off and pick up and absolutely holds the majority of our childcare. I look after the six month old at night, but I know he feels tired (which makes everything worse). He's expressed that it would help if I didn't work as much, but I just got a new job/promotion and feel like I need to show up. It feels like we're stuck. I've suggested hiring a nanny, but he's reluctant to spend the money (and it's hard to find people).It isn't every day, and it isn't all the time...but I know my partner is suffering from depression, and I don't think I'm helping. Has anyone else faced this after having their second child? What can I do to be a better partner and parent when he's so visibly upset, sad, and frustrated at times?tl;dr: my partner is unhappy after the birth of our second child, six months ago. Looking for advice from people who have faced a similar situation. via /r/Parenting http://ift.tt/2qaCy9I