Everyone expects me to take my newborn baby who was in the NICU out to meet them instead of coming over! What should I do about this?

Why is it that everyone expects me to bring my NEWBORN BABY WHO WAS SICK IN THE NICU out to meet them? I don't know if she's going to have a shitty immune system now because of it and I'm not going to risk anything. No one except 2 people have come to my house to meet her I'm not dragging her out in this weather unnecessarily. Like if you want to meet her come over. If not I'll know how much you really care, sorry not sorry!Even my supposed "best friend" wants me to bring my baby over to her house. Yet, when her son was born I always had to go to her house (which I understood) and her baby was 100% healthy so why do you want me to take my NICU grad out in this weather? It was -12 degrees last I checked! I feel like I'm going to lose my cool really soon and just snap on everyone.How should I handle this situation? via /r/Parenting http://ift.tt/2DL6fA9