My ex disappeared from our kids' lives. My life has taken a nose dive. The kids are acting HORRIBLY, my boyfriend is fed up with them as it seems they intentionally are trying to make life hell.

My ex husband disappeared about a month ago. He told me he was moving out of state, but did not tell me, nor his own family, where.He turned off his phones and deleted his social media and no longer responds to any emails.My kids loved their dad. I had the very difficult talk with them about their father not wanting to be in their lives anymore and they have been behaving worse than they ever have before. Every single day they're breaking something or fighting with eachother or other kids.They're fully disobedient and disrespectful to both me and my boyfriend. My son even tried to fight him.Today my youngest literally set the trashcan in the kitchen on fire with some of my and my boyfriend's belongings inside.I just don't know what to do anymore and I'm exhausted. via /r/Parenting http://ift.tt/2vnc4U1