Throwaway, english is not my mother language:Today, the 10 years old son of my girlfriend went to have a pee, and leaved piss in the toilet. I told him to go clean it up. He didn't wanted to. His mother, my girlfriend, made a piece of paper and was starting to be ready to clean it, but I wanted to be the kid to clean it so he could learn some responsability. He did, and then he started crying saying he didn't had age to be a "cleaning employee of nobody". Started crying, screaming and punching doors, while is mother tried to calm him down. I said that for that reaction he will have some days without computer. He came to me, raised his finger at me, and screamed me the sentence I wrote in the title.His mother stood there without saying a word.I pay as much as she does in this house, but the house was from her mother and they lived there before me. I support her kid as much as she do, pay for meals, electricity water and web if I have too. I make food for the kid almost everyday. I teach him some karate moves to defend of the kids that try to bully him in school. Sometimes I think of going out fishing with him, or kart racing, or even starting a martial art together.I don't have kids of my own and I don't wan to. I know that I don't have what it takes to be a father, my reaction to this was explosive. I didn't hitted him or anything but I said that he was a bad son... but I love my girlfriend too much not to make this sacrifice. Even yesterday we had a beatiful day... but then there is this kid that spoils it all away, a spoiled brat with a permissive mother that is broken probably beyiond repair (he has very few positive marks at school and other problems that wasnn't suposed to have at his age that I don't want to talk about it).There have been a lot of things with her kid for the 2 years we've been living together... but I think this is the one thing that brake me. I don't think I want to live there anymore...Thanks for listening. via /r/Parenting http://ift.tt/2lujr6b
No comments:
Post a Comment