Update about my friends husband going madman on their son. We talked about it today

Hey everyone, First of all thank you for all the great advice.So today we went for a walk to a playground in the area. My friend had it coming I guess. We were talking about the basic stuff, me talking about my husband and her talking about hers.Then I said I don't know how to say this, and I am hoping not to hurt you. But I have to say this. The way your husband T acted towards your son past Wednesday was absolutely not ok. He can't treat him like this. This behavior is not good at all and a child won't behave after being yelled at and being pulled out of his chair like that. Her reaction was he said sorry and has been mad at himself for acting like that. I said in return that nothing justifies his reaction towards their son. She again said this was the result of 3 weeks that the child has barely ate anything and has been throwing with food around. And that she would take him from the dinner table, but not the way her husband did. I in return said that I feel if I don't say anything about this I am not a good friend and I am not carrying about their son enough to interfere. That one day in many years he might ask himself why no one stood up and stopped his father. And if he will say anything to anyone about his father behaves CPS could take him away in a snap! And she is better off by talking to her husband that he needs to cool his head down if he gets mad about the sons behavior. I don't care he can go out and be away in 30 minutes. That she should be able to send him away, because this behavior is not okay!She didn't say much, but I was strict and I said what I have to say! I told her as well that my husband stopped me and I wished he didn't! Because if e allow him this 1 time, 2 times, 10 times do you think he will take us seriously when we say he has to change after 10 times looking away.The conversation got silence and I said I hope she understands that I say this, because I can't look away.She ended the conversation with saying this is one of the reasons I prefer to go out with their son without her partner. That is actually very sad in my eyes, but I didn't want to make it worse.She was at our place around 09:30 am until 6 pm. The kids enjoyed their time together and didn't fight at all compared to the last time at their place. He ate very well and he was a happy boy.I just hope they come over more often to our place to avoid that ***hole at home.Again thank you for all the advice! via /r/Parenting https://ift.tt/31KNhG8