My daughter is a victim of child pornography

I am not seeking legal advice I am looking for help getting past this.When was daughter was 11 she was apparently speaking to this “rapper” online while at my parents on the weekend. I guess she flashed him and then he threatened to expose her and blackmailed her.Last week I got a call from the RCMP to come in and from there I was told the FBI had arrested the man. He is facing a min of 25 years. My daughter still doesn’t know, I can’t say anything as that would be coaching. I have no one to talk to as I’m so scared that someone will say something to one person and so on and then her name will get out.I’m so upset and I’m scared. I know she won’t under the full concept of what happened until probably years down the road. I have always been on the ball with internet safety so where did I go wrong? How did I miss this? I feel like a failure. via /r/Parenting https://ift.tt/2rV8hNS