Little One (6yo) went missing for an hour

Hello Everyone!I am on mobile so please excuse the format!I’m still really upset and livid from Tuesday’s event. My little’s school has early dismissal on Tuesday. When I’m at work, I remind my parents to pick her up, which is not a bother at all to them. Early that morning, I reminded my parents, but I guess it went over my dad’s head as he was 10 minutes late. He waited outside for the regular dismissal time. The time passed and he decided to go to the office to see what’s going on. The office rep then said that I picked her up. My dad told her that it was impossible because I was about an hour away and that I texted him early morning. The office rep insisted at this point that she was no longer in school. My dad got me on the phone and said that my little one is missing. He passed the phone to the office rep and she told me that I picked up Madeira. I said, “That’s impossible because I’ve been at work and my dad who’s in front of you is supposed to pick her up.”It was an out of body experience. I left work immediately. 45 minutes later, I got a call from my dad to tell me that she’s at the Boys and Girls Club after school program a few blocks away. They would have had to get out of school, walk under the freeway bridge, and cross a busy street. She’s not signed up for this after school program because there’s always someone available to pick her up.A few things I’m going to point out instead of writing it into a story.-Yes, my dad was late, but as far as ice always known, the kids are taken to the office by their teacher for late pick up -Her teacher left her with the yard supervisor and told her that when she sees her grandpa, to let the yard supervisor know -The Boys and Girls Club teachers didn’t take roll and she was not accounted for nor the kids who’s supposed to be there -The school questioned and found it odd that her grandparents pick her up instead of the parents (her dad and my parents pick her up most of the time) -In the 6 years the principal’s been there, this is apparently the first time she’s lost a kid -She went with them because the Boys and Girls Club teachers said she couldn’t wait there and she needed to get in lineOur main concern is safety. She was taken out of school as easy as that. She was taken out of school without our permission at all.She was telling me she felt scared when they were walking because she didn’t know what was going on. We’ve talked to her about speaking up. I can honestly talk to her about many things, but kids are naive. But the adults running this program, they should have known better.I’ve talked to the district, her principal, and her teacher. I made it aware that it doesn’t stop there until I see that there’s been real changes. They are also aware that this is not forgivable. via /r/Parenting https://ift.tt/2oKaN4d