Lost so many friendships after becoming a parent

I was just thinking about how many people I haven't heard from since I told them I was pregnant. Literally, with at least 2 people, the last conversation we had was me telling them the good news. They seemed happy to find out!I guess I'm just a little disappointed in people and the time invested in those relationships. I know having a child changes people, but to not even want to see if we could still get on? That was unexpected to say the least. And I'm not waiting for people to reach out to me, i have tried to arrange meet-ups. They ended up cancelling. And I stopped getting invited to things too.Now in my 30s and with 2 young kids, I just don't have the energy to invest into making new friends. It will probably change as they start school and such, but a part of me is dreading that too as I am not a natural at socialising.Anyone else in the same boat? via /r/Parenting https://ift.tt/37V9moU