Thursday, 1 June 2017

Need alternative to babysitter


I'm currently living in parrsboro NS & there isn't much here for child care however me & the mother both need to work but I'm really having trouble with trusting people...My baby girl is 10 months old and we are leaving her with a lady at her home with a bunch of other older kids and a couple of babies....she is the only one watching them & I don't see how she could watch them all at the same time or keep a routine when I have trouble with just my baby, she seems very overweight which I don't have a problem with, I don't mean to mean but I don't see how she can get around after all of those kids.Today when I dropped her off the baby didn't seem to want to go to her and was reaching for me when I gave her to her & she's only 10 so maybe she just wanted her dad but I still felt terrible leaving her there.When I went she was sitting on her couch while the other kids were watching TV and the other baby was crying & screaming. She doesn't seem like she says much about their day.I mean she doesn't seem like the worst person ever or anything but we don't know her at all and people lie... even if they aren't doing anything to harm your baby, everybody lies to make things look better so that they don't look bad.Not sure what to do next as my gf doesn't care where the baby goes as long as she doesn't have to watch her. I just told her once again about that today and she just shrugged it off & went back to workI feel like a bad dad :( via /r/Parenting http://ift.tt/2rtLbLC

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