help I'm at a loss and don't know what to do with my ex co parenting.

my ex hasn't worked for a year, for the past year and a half he has been staying at a friends house sleeping on the couch and my child sleeps on a small cot. he collects food stamps and is on Medicaid. doesn't have a driver license but still chooses to drive. I cant get support because I make to much and he doesn't work. how do I co parent in this situation? my child ends up being pulled out of day care and back in and back out because the cost is too great for me to do on my own. this cycle continues and I feel like pulling my hair out trying to shuffle my child around driving back and forth so he can see his mom. i.m at my wits end. anytime I try to discuss these issues he get irate and refuses to communicate. what are my options? I can keep going like this. things would be much easier if my child's dad was a responsible adult.when I try to express my concerns its get thrown in my face and he makes comments that I'm unable to communicate effectively, I have a personality disorder, I gas light. its making me insane. I feel the opposite is true but I don't verbalize that to him because I don't want to go down that rabbit hole. via /r/Parenting http://ift.tt/2bDVEOl