Family Involvement in Your Parenting

I am a Filipina (woman from the Philippines). Most of the families in my country, including mine, have a very tightly knit bond which can have its ups and downs. One down I may not have a remedy for is my family's involvement with my parenting style. I am not a bad mom and I think that my parenting skill is on point, but, my mother-in-law, aunties, cousins, sisters-in-law (mostly matriarchs in the family), always have something negative to say. So my question is: how "involved" is your family in your parenting? and how do you deal with it if it rubs you the wrong way?Thank you to all the parents, in advance, who take time to answer my question. via /r/Parenting http://ift.tt/2caIKb0