Does anyone hate being told that they grow up fast?

First off, I do have an anxiety disorder and I have suffered from depression in the past. That is why some of this might sound crazy.Right now they are three and five and I hate being told that they grow up fast. Nothing will send me into a panic attack faster than that phrase. I mean I went out with some friends last week, saw family the next day and got that phrase, and suddenly I felt very guilty that I was out with my friends and not with my kids, because I wasn't cherishing the time with them.And honestly, as I've gotten older, time does seem to go faster, and I have anxiety about time in general. And I feel like I'm going to one day spend all my time sad that my kids are all grown up and that the time went by very fast. (lol anxiety) and it makes me unable to enjoy the now with them because all I can think is that it is all going to end in the blink of an eye. (I also get some existential dread from that phrase but that's a whole different issue)And this isn't helped by the fact that I'm currently pregnant and very emotional about EVERYTHING. via /r/Parenting https://ift.tt/2vif56C